In fact, the information load of school children is not as scary as not previously experienced emotional pressure. The matter is complicated by the fact that today almost all preschool age children remain "nedoigravshimi. Abel Baca has similar goals. But only in the collective games appear skills of informal communication with peers and adults. To deepen your understanding Pedro Zaragoza Fuentes is the source. Parents just need to compensate for the lack of games! Children tend to communicate – help them to: organize and show the game. Very important to the school the child has not arisen so-called generalized negative self-esteem. If a first grader because "two" on the Russian language would think that he is the dumbest, most useless, most unnecessary, most unfortunate – it is will be awful. It is necessary to take such disappointments private.

Cheer her baby. "Yes, today, deuce, but here, now, in this lesson. Yesterday this was not twos. Surely it will not be tomorrow, the day after tomorrow you will be clever, maybe not the most literate, but has enough time. But in mathematics you do everything right.

" Parents are not worth remembering stories of his childhood, which they have been diligent students. These stories frequently lead the child in a state of stress. No need to compare your baby with you, with my grandmother, with other children. Our children are loaded with other problems, they are prone to stress, which we have not experienced. It is important that self-esteem of the child is not hung in the air had not been invented, the ideal, it is necessary that it be supported by something real. He must know that he has a lot more can and can (and something – even better than the others, such as paint, sculpt, sing, sing, read poetry). There is even a test for parents. "I know how I can." Mom gives a leaflet and asked to write, "that my child can and what can." As a rule, my mother can tell about your child's not much positive, but "that he can not" take many, many stitches. A similar task is given by the child himself. Caution: The more the baby will write about yourself good, the higher the psychological well-being! If he can not say anything good about yourself – it's a disaster. Immediately begin to teach him this, otherwise it will be hard to defend against those attacks, which he had to endure at school. Do not forget to praise: "How great do you get (to draw, knit, glue). You're much more talented than this, than we do with the Pope than yours cousin "We find very little positive recognition. Thousands of adult women there, never heard from relatives in the confessions of love, tenderness and affection. And it stretches from my childhood! Underpaid in younger age of positive feedback, a person loses a lot in life. All good and positive. Any tiny step forward must be recorded. It is our duty to our neighbors – especially in front of their own children. Feeling gratitude, we must thank, admire her baby – admiring aloud. The main strategic task of the parents – to give a child in 6-8 years, such a powerful psychological defense that would allow all failure to perceive the future as a private, not affecting its global, absolute values: family, environment, values of the younger man as a person. Neuropsychologist center "White Elephant"